Skinny Girl Envy

Ok World, its time I come clean with myself............ I get skinny girl envy when I go shopping!!!!! Like some kinda serious.

The other day I was in the  mall with a few of my line sisters, and for jokes we walked into F21......... and it hit me: Never in my life have I been able to wear anything in this store! Granted some of the items are poorly made and won't last past the season, but the fact that even if I wanted to I couldn't enjoy shopping for more than earrings in the store, pissed me off!!!!

 Later on that evening I reflected on how many non department stores in mall, do I frequent. About 2, New York and Co/GAP and even that can can be a struggle. So I simply say all this to say that I've  really got to get my butt in gear when it comes to my healthy living goals! I don't want to feel restricted when it comes to shopping and activities I do. Not just to fit in, but grow past my limits of self assuredness, confidence, size perception, and love.

~Smooches~

T-Dub

Speaking your goals into existence:::: The Power of Positivity

'Ello Blogosphere,

Its been quiet some time since I have logged on and made a quick blog. I've been busy with life as usual, but I just finished reading an awesome book Tuesdays With Morrie by Mitch Albom which is a story that details how a writer rekindles a relationship with a former professor, who is dying of ALS, and the professor bestows upon the writer many life lessons. My favorite quote was " you cannot learn to live unless you learn to die", resonated with me because we all are in a space of "what is my purpose", "what is my calling", "how can I be a better me".  I believe its hard to figure those things out when we are always wondering if we are offending others, or if others will approve. When we seek positive change in our lives and tell those around us about our goals, it removes the burden of feeling like we are doing it alone. Speaking those goals and personal quests of truths I feel can help us find people/place people in our lives for that journey who can best assist us. So Go Forth in your truth, in your goals, and in your renewed sense of happiness in life's fulfillment and let no one stop you with negativity!!!!

~Smooches and Blessings~

T-Dub

Sistafriends are a girls best accessory!

I just wanted to simply blog about having good friends in my corner. They inspire me in many ways to reach after my goals rather than sit back. I have friends in various arenas of work professionally, as well as growth spiritually. I have friends who are going back for advanced degrees, certifications for work, or even starting a new career path. They are handling their  issues in stride and I feel empowered by surrounding myself around them. So, to any person that stumbles across my blog remember to think about all the great positive folks in your  life and see how amazed you will be!!!

I keep on FALLing!

Its a lovely 60 degree morning in NC and Fall woke me up this morning. It said "goodmorning, you missed me"? Me: "Um do we have to do this right now? I need to get my wardrobe ready for you"! So in ode to the Fall Here are a few of my I need to holla at list:


HOLLA List

Riding Boots

How could you not love a great pair of riding boots for a casual yet chic day of shopping and chilling with the chicas!

Cardigan

Peg Leg Pants

They give an extra "umph" to a simple pants and blouse outfit. I'd pair with some eclectic wedges. 

Blazers, Blazers, Blazing trail!

I am a fan of blazers, they make you look incredibly well dressed, professional, and transition from work to play very easily with the change of blouse/top. Also they keep the habitually cold natured warm during the transition of temps. Here are a few I like:

 ~~~Smooches~~~

Castor Oil Challenge and 8k

I have recently taken out a weave, and I'm going to do some hair TLC before my next install or braids. So Yes, joining the castor oil challenge to keep moisture in my hair.

The goal: Oil my scalp and or hair 3 nights a week with Castor Oil mixed with coconut oil. My goal is to do this for the remainder of 2011, in hopes to gain about 2 inches of length, and if nothing less, length retention. Protective styles are going to help me in my goal listed below.

Also my other goal is to train for an 8k to attempt this Thanksgiving. I've mapped out the route, and am working on a workout schedule. I am just getting tired of this extra weight, and I think its hindering my happiness and growth, so its time to shed some dead weight! Wish me luck! 

Wishing on a Star

Oh I'm wishing on a STAR to follow were you are, wishing on a dream, to find out what it means!

Ladies and Gentlemen, wish me luck on my future endeavors and I will do the same for you! More details to come!

Walking..... its your friend

I am proud to say that today i had a mini walk with a friend. Granted it wasn't a long walk by any means but it just felt good to get out and about and move around. You know its like the commercial i saw that says "a body in motion stays in motion" and thats going to be my motto for the week. Keep staying in motion.

Goal: Load Ipod!